Ray J and Lil' Kim at Baron Davis and Paul Pierce's LA Stars 'Rodeo Drive Experience'. Beverly Hills, California - 04.08.07

The R+B star, most famous for his sex tape performance with socialite Kim Kardashian, has known both divas since he was a teenager.

He refuses to deny romantic liaisons with them - and claims to love them both.

Of his relationship with rapper Lil' Kim, Ray J says, "We go out on dates and have fun but it's not official like I'm her husband and she's my wife. We go out and we have fun. I love Lil' Kim (but) I don't kiss and tell."

And, of Houston, he adds, "I've been knowing Whitney since I was young. Every time she came around we laughed and joked. We always had good conversation, so last year we just spent a lot more time together. I don't think I'm in love. But I love her."

Source: WENN